Monday, January 21, 2019

(5 months) Time Flies When You Are Preaching the Gospel!


Rama Alianza Real Mutual Activity Jan 17, 2019
Hola!  
Wow, this is so incredibly weird to think that five months ago, today (8.21.18) I was an incredibly nervous yet excited missionary about to enter an entirely different life of commitment to my Savior and the beautiful principles of this gospel!  I just feel so motivated, and encouraged that now I am entering into the prime time of the mission (at least according to the missionaries here, where I have learned the principles, studied hard, learned through trial and error several practices that are effective and others that are less effective, and now I am able to begin the 6 months to 24 month period where I can also communicate a sentence in Spanish without having to question myself if what I said was grammatically correct!   Looking back, there were many moments of frustration and difficulty but I would like to reiterate the words of Elder Holland in his conference talk, An High Priest of Good Things to Come where he shared:

Thirty years ago last month, a little family set out to cross the United States to attend graduate school—no money, an old car, every earthly possession they owned packed into less than half the space of the smallest U-Haul trailer available. Bidding their apprehensive parents farewell, they drove exactly 34 miles up the highway, at which point their beleaguered car erupted.
Pulling off the freeway onto a frontage road, the young father surveyed the steam, matched it with his own, then left his trusting wife and two innocent children—the youngest just three months old—to wait in the car while he walked the three miles or so to the southern Utah metropolis of Kanarraville, population then, I suppose, 65. Some water was secured at the edge of town, and a very kind citizen offered a drive back to the stranded family. The car was attended to and slowly—very slowly—driven back to St. George for inspection—U-Haul trailer and all.
After more than two hours of checking and rechecking, no immediate problem could be detected, so once again the journey was begun. In exactly the same amount of elapsed time at exactly the same location on that highway with exactly the same pyrotechnics from under the hood, the car exploded again. It could not have been 15 feet from the earlier collapse, probably not 5 feet from it! Obviously the most precise laws of automotive physics were at work.
Now feeling more foolish than angry, the chagrined young father once more left his trusting loved ones and started the long walk for help once again. This time the man providing the water said, “Either you or that fellow who looks just like you ought to get a new radiator for that car.” For the second time a kind neighbor offered a lift back to the same automobile and its anxious little occupants. He didn’t know whether to laugh or to cry at the plight of this young family.
“How far have you come?” he said. “Thirty-four miles,” I answered. “How much farther do you have to go?” “Twenty-six hundred miles,” I said. “Well, you might make that trip, and your wife and those two little kiddies might make that trip, but none of you are going to make it in that car.” He proved to be prophetic on all counts.
Just two weeks ago this weekend, I drove by that exact spot where the freeway turnoff leads to a frontage road, just three miles or so west of Kanarraville, Utah. That same beautiful and loyal wife, my dearest friend and greatest supporter for all these years, was curled up asleep in the seat beside me. The two children in the story, and the little brother who later joined them, have long since grown up and served missions, married perfectly, and are now raising children of their own. The automobile we were driving this time was modest but very pleasant and very safe. In fact, except for me and my lovely Pat situated so peacefully at my side, nothing of that moment two weeks ago was even remotely like the distressing circumstances of three decades earlier.
Yet in my mind’s eye, for just an instant, I thought perhaps I saw on that side road an old car with a devoted young wife and two little children making the best of a bad situation there. Just ahead of them I imagined that I saw a young fellow walking toward Kanarraville, with plenty of distance still ahead of him. His shoulders seemed to be slumping a little, the weight of a young father’s fear evident in his pace. In the scriptural phrase his hands did seem to “hang down.”15 In that imaginary instant, I couldn’t help calling out to him: “Don’t give up, boy. Don’t you quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead—a lot of it—30 years of it now, and still counting. You keep your chin up. It will be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come.”
I absolutely love this story that encourages us to keep trying, keep moving forward, even when things look dark and dreary! We always have the Light of the World beckoning us to step forward, improve just a little bit each day, repent willingly and quickly each day of our errors, and we can have the confidence that one beautiful day we will stand before God clean and pure, with the opportunity to live with our families in a state free from pain, death, disappointment, frustration, and everything that comes along with this mortal condition, and hear him calling to us beckoning us into his loving embrace!  For this blessing we strive for as missionaries, and we know that it is only through sharing this message that we truly have the capacity to achieve it, because only until all the world has heard this wonderful message and made the decision to accept or reject it, is when the Savior will come, and he will reign in great power and majesty and as my favorite scripture says:  He will wipe away all tears from their eyes! 
Sorry for not sending a group email the week before, we ran late from the Zone Activity and in returning to our areas we only had time to send the basics, an email to the President and one to our mothers to make sure that they didn´t have a panic attack that something bad happened to us, haha!
I am also a bit low on time today, but here is a picture of mutual from the past week!
I love you guys,
Keep on Swimming and Trusting in our Savior!
Elder Raven

Feliz Cumpleanos Elder Raven 💙💙💙

Hi Elder Raven,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WEEK!!!! I have been thinking about you all week! We hope you are doing well!  A couple of questions we have for you...
  • How are you doing?
  • How is Elder Santiago doing? Any news about how his knee is doing? Elder Santiago is lucky to have you as his trainer.  YOU are amazing!
  • Did your internet short out last week? It's the first time we didn't get a group email from you. Is everything ok?
  • How are your investigators? How is the Grandma you found the beginning of December?
  • We sent you more fish oils...are you taking fish oils? It will help with the demands placed on your body. 
  • I wanted to share that Blake was ordained a Deacon January 6th, Braxton has ordained a Teacher Sunday, January 20th. Mckinley went to the Temple with friends on Monday and she came again with Blake on Friday so she could be with him on his first time to the Temple.  Blake passed the sacrament for the first time in Church and he gave a youth talk about "Some of the Privileges of being able to go to the Temple." Dad also spoke with Blake in Sacrament meeting.  They did a nice job!
  • The kids want to use your hoverboard, but I put the charge cord away so they can't use it. So it will be in good condition when you get home.  I told them they need to get permission from you before they can use it. You can tell me your honest thoughts if you want me to keep it safe for you... I will. haha 
    • IS there anything we can help do for you? We re here to support you.
    • Do you have any pics you can send for your blog?  Thanks for the pictures you already have sent.  
You are constantly in our prayers. We love hearing from you!!!! Keep smiling!
Love, Mom ðŸ’™ðŸ’™ðŸ’™

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Mom,
Thank you so much for the birthday wishes, keeping me in the loop with all thats going on back home, and for the many blessings I have received through your emails!
First off, I am so excited that Blake, and Braxton advanced in their priesthood responsibilities!  Make sure that they understand that they have an access to the power of God and that they have the power to be instruments of great good in school and in every aspect of their lives!  Teach them about their divine identity and destiny, and help them continue to be the wonderful boys that they already are!   I am truly blessed with the greatest family on the planet, and for your wonderful examples in teaching me the principles of the gospel!  They are doing so much good in the ward back home, and I hope they can recognize how wonderful they truly are, because they have learned from your example and that of our dad as well!
So this past week was honestly great!  It was full of challenges and adversity like normal, but we have grown closer as a companionship and for this reason, it is much more bearable!  We are truly striking up a great balance and I believe that we will be great instruments for good here in the branch of Alianza Real! 
We bought a knee brace for Elder Santiago, alongeside some pain medication to help him keep working in spite of the cold related pain!  So he´s been doing a lot better!
So last week we ran out of time from the Zone Activity in the stake center, and so we were booking it, so we only sent a message to the president, to family members and friends, and then left to return to our area a little bit late!  We were only writing for like 20 mins because we really ran out of time!
Everything is fine down here, and don´t worry I am going to explain everything in the massive group email!
Our investigators are great, it is just really difficult to work around work schedules in our area, because most of the people don´t have an education beyond la prepa or high school equivalent and for this reason they are very humble and good people, but they are unable to have a lot of control over their work schedules because they all work in factories where they literally don´t know their schedules in advance until the week of and they are only able to life and plan in the moment so that makes things complicated to plan our lessons, but they are really ready and progressing in all their commitments except for attending the church!
Yeah I have been taking the supplements and fish oils you have given me, and I still feel tired all the time, but they help me to maintain the energy until the nightime, haha!  
The broskis can use the hoverboard all they want, really I don´t have any need of it,  just make sure they stay safe that is my only concern, but for all I care they can have it.   One thing the mission has taught me is to not be so overly concerned about things, but rather how I can help other people, and if it makes them happy to use the hoverboard, let them at it, so long as they don´t try to do flips with it, haha!
Really there isn´t anything more!  Thanks for all that you are doing to send inspirational messages to help me press forward one day at a time!  The time is truly flying here and it is so wild to think that I have been in the field for exactly 5 months as of today!  I feel so blessed to be able to give to those around me, and center my life so that one day I will be able to end this mission with honor, to begin the true everyday battles of an everyday member missionary!
Love you so much mother!
Thank you for raising me in the principles of the gospel, and teaching me of the power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ!
I love you more than you can imagine!
Elder Raven

Monday, January 14, 2019

A Quick Email after Zone Activity

Mom,
We had a zone activity today and we are short on time, but we did see to check on Elder Santiago's knee, but he´s been battling a lot, and it is a long story but we are hoping that he gets better and can keep working. Thanks for searching for the book! I am excited to read Saints, Articles of Faith and Miracle of Forgiveness. I appreciate you sending them to me.  You are so sweet, thank you! You have helped me in so many ways to be here on the mission! Thanks for the photos!
Sorry, I can´t send any, we really don´t have time!
Love you guys so much! 
Elder Raven




Monday, January 7, 2019

Dia de los Reyes Magos (Day of Three Kings!) 1.6.19

Specifically, something that was truly incredible was on Saturday when members from the Felipe Carrillo Ward asked if we had some time available on Sunday to help out with the Reyes Magos (The Wise Men, or literally the Magical Kings) here in Alianza Real.  They had received a ton of toys and clothes for young children and they were wondering if there was anybody that could use a little bit of help by providing gifts to the young children of more financially troubled families!  It was so cool to see these young children freak out because here in Mexico, the Reyes Magos pass by and deliver gifts to every child, and they are often more revered than Santa Claus so just being a part to help some families that were literally saying, I just didn´t know how we were going to provide gifts for our kids this year, thank you so much! was truly very humbling and beautiful experience!
Dia de los Reyes Magos (Three Kings Day) is always celebrated on January 6th


I truly have a testimony that much like King Benjamin taught us that if we are in the service of our fellow beings, we are only in the service of our God! And that as we are out serving, we are being cleansed by the Spirit and are able to maintain our souls clean and worthy before He who is perfectly loving and pure!
But for any of you who are confused about what went down, just think of the Sub for Santa program, but with less preparation, a lot more soccer balls as the gifts, and everyone speaking Spanish, haha!
Elder Santiago and I both found the babies in our Rosca bread so we are supposed to bring Tamales to the party on Feb 2nd!
Megan Briggs just got home from Mexico City from a Wedding and she invited my family over to celebrate Dia de los Reyes Magos! My Dad, Braxton, and Caleb found babies in their Rosca. So they want to have the Briggs family over for Tamales on Feb. 2nd
Spiritual Thought:
Extranar vs. Extranarse
With my limited Spanish knowledge from spending four months with the wonderful people of Monterrey Mexico, I have learned something really interesting about these two verbs.  The first one of extranar means to miss something or someone, while the other signifies something that was unexpected or surprising to you. It is really interesting to consider because the only true difference is the reflexive se part of the second verb which makes the verb being acted upon the individual.  Or another way of phrasing that very confusing sentence is that one is to miss someone or something while the other is to be missing ourselves which translates in Spanish to the unexpected or surprising parts of life and I think there is a beautiful doctrinal principle about this.
David Cardenas Sanchez thought it was funny we both found the babies and we are supposed to bring Tamales for the party on Feb. 2nd!!! Hopefully, Elder Santiago can help me make Tamales! JaJa!
The Savior invites us several times to lose ourselves in his work in building up his kingdom.  He asks us to overcome the natural man in each and every one of us and in essence miss or forget ourselves in order to truly experience the beautiful blessings that surround us!  Many joys and wonders await us if we are willing to let go of the picture we have for our lives and follow the program that an all-knowing God has for us!  It is much like the rich young nobleman that was unwilling to submit himself to the will of Christ and receive the treasures of Heaven.  So I would like to invite each and every one of us to seek to align ourselves more with the two great commandments that our loving Heavenly Father has granted us!  To Love Him, and our neighbors, with every ounce of our beings!  I guarantee in this time of evaluating, planning and changing, that the more we can centralize our lives on these ultimate goals of our Heavenly Father, the more we will be at peace with ourselves, gain a sure understanding of our mortal purpose, and be able to overcome the temptations of the adversary that are so abundant in our world today!
For if we can truly apply ourselves to try to see through God´s eyes, I promise that we will never lack the spiritual and emotional strength to endure to the end.

Quick recap of the week:
Tuesday: We had a beautiful lesson with a menos activo family from the branch and we were able to see them in Church so that was really amazing!  They are a young couple with a young son that has been battling with sickness and we have been able to give him a blessing and it truly is such a wonderful experience to help everyone align their lives more with Christ, and experience the many blessings!
Wednesday: The cold became really intense and we had to come home early a bit because Elder Santiago was really struggling with his knee!
Thursday-Saturday;
Study and planning basically, haha!  Also making some quick intercambios with other Elders of Alianza Real to be able to make quick visits with some of our investigators!
That´s bascially everything going on down here in the sometimes freezing, sometimes blistering hot metropolis of MTY, MX, haha!
Cuidense Mucho!
Hasta la proxima semana!
Elder Raven

Monday, December 31, 2018

Answer to Mom's ?'s ❤️❤️💓


Celebrating Happy New Year with David and Alma Cardenas Sanchez Family 1.1.19
Elder Raven!
I have a couple of ?'s  I LOVE YOU! 💓
Love, Mom

1. We love to read that you are finding less active families. Who are some of them? 
We have been working with the families Pucheta Jara, Hoyos Hernandez, Cruz Cruz, everyone is really amazing, and we´ve been seen an increase in attendance, so I am really excited to see how the rest of January goes!  I pray that we can have a full chapel on the 27th as a kind of birthday present for me, jaja!
2. How is it going being district leader?
It´s tough to take the time out of the day to check how the other Elders are doing, and see if there is anything I can do to help them. Then have their numbers not be very good and getting chewed out a bit by Elder Powers for not producing better numbers every week ... but the upsides are truly awesome because I get to prepare capacitation that literally is just sharing gospel principles, inviting the spirit, asking for the patience of the other Elders to bear with my Spanish, and so many wonderful spiritual experiences there!  In fact, Elder Powers and Elder Santos are going to do intercambios with us tomorrow and they are going to drop on in on our district meeting, but I hope it's going to be great and I am hoping that they are impressed!
 3. What are some of your responsibilities?
 I really love Elder Santiago, Elder Basurto, y Elder Aguilar, and Elder Aguilar received his Dear John letter this past week so he´s really hurting, but we are hoping to animate him and get him functioning fully!  The funny thing is that he has more experience in the mission that the other three of us combined but sometimes we have to direct him to be more focused or more hardworking, haha!!
4. How is Elder Santiago doing? 
Yes we have been able to connect a lot better these past few days, he is feeling better, but like my mass email shared, he´s knee has been really hurting so we´re struggling with that but we will be up and running soon!
5.Did you figure out your code for your luggage locks? 
YES I FIGURED OUT THE CODES; THANK YOU SO MUCH; jaja!
6,  Is there any other books or supplies you would like? I will send miracles of forgiveness...Weight doesn’t matter when we mail you packages.
I would also like Articles of Faith by James E. Talmage if you have that one, or Saints if you have a spare copy!
7. Was Jose Luiz confirmed? 
Yes, Jose Luiz was confirmed the last Sunday, and he is doing really well, we are just battling with his work schedule to get him to come to church!
8. Do you still have your towels that say Raven on them? 
Yes I have been using my Raven towels, they are AWESOME!
9. Did you open some of your birthday gifts that were in the package or are you waiting for your birthday? 
I did open my presents just because I wanted to see if there was anything useful, but thank you so much, and I really loved all the presents they have helped make missionary life a lot easier and more exciting!  Specifically, the hymnal arrangements!

I love you guys so much! Thanks for the encouragement, love, prayers, and all the spiritual thoughts that you guys share to strengthen my testimony and encouragement to do my best here in the mission!
Love you to the moon and back, then multiplied by a googleplex! 💙

Love,
Elder Raven

4 mil pesos (A Christmas Story, kind of, haha!)

Feliz Ano Nuevo (Mas o Menos)!
How´s things for you guys back home? I hope you all have been able to enjoy this festive season with many wonderful miracles that we are witnessing every single day!

So this past week has been one of the strangest and most miraculous weeks of my life, and I don´t have a ton of time to explain everything, but I am going to give it a shot!
So we have been teaching Jose Luiz for a while now, and he got baptized two Saturdays back, but immediately after his baptism he had an incredible amount of opposition with a lot of stress on his marriage, finances, and general family relations as well, and he literally felt like his life was never going to be able to recover, and we were totally unaware of this because we had tried to get into contact with him numerous times but it could never work out until this last Wednesday we decided to just pass by his house and see if he was home, and miraculously he was and we were able to resolve a lot of his concerns, testify of the truthfulness of the gospel, and we gave him the promise that if he stepped forward with faith that all of his problems would become manageable even if they didn´t fully go away!  But then the following day he went to check his account which with his work and everything remained should have only had 600 pesos but he went and checked and had an additional 4,000 pesos which was the exact amount need to pay the rent for the next month, to keep his family intact, and to eliminate the stress in his life!  Although it might seem like a coincidence, I believe it truly was a miracle of God that permitted him to be confirmed this week and received countless blessings!
Jose Luiz was confirmed a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints Dec. 30, 2018
We really have been blessed this week in finding families that disappeared off the face of the earth, receiving many member references, and overall being blessed, and I would like to declare to each and every one of you that there truly is a principle that when thing are going incredibly wrong that it is just exactly when our loving Heavenly Father can reach down and bless us in a way that we recognize and appreciate beyond anything else, and that we will be more inclined to depend upon him more fully to receive the blessings we so desperately need! 
I love you guys so much! Thanks for the support and all the encouragement you have given and are giving me!  You are truly a secondary source of motivation after the primary goal of serving my Savior through bringing his brothers and sisters unto Him and our Heavenly Father!
Thanks for your kind thoughts with the Cardenas Cano family, they really are the greatest, and I hope that I can find families like them to teach and have this gospel change their lives! I wish I had more time to write, but hopefully this will suffice for this week! 
I love you all so much, and I promise to send more next week, but for now ...
Cuidense mucho!  Echa la ganas!

Love,
Elder Raven

Tuesday, December 25, 2018

Zapoteco (Didxazaa)

Hey My Wonderful Friends and Family,
This past week I figured out who I am going to spend the next three months with, and its Elder Santiago from Oaxaca, Mexico!  He is a really timid personality, but has a very powerful conversion story that happened at the age of Ten, and he has a very powerful testimony of this gospel and this missionary work!  My goal is just to keep him enthused and have the Spirit direct us in this missionary work!  He is from the area of Litsmo and his first language is Zapateco which is a really ancient dialect that I have been learning during our language studies together, as well as studying Spanish, haha!  It is a super interesting language, because there is a lot of hard consonant sounds as well as the n sound is very popular in the language, but I have seen a lot of parallels with English in the pronunciation structure, and its kinda nice because now we have a secret little code between us to help us say something important without being offensive!  We have been really working hard to try and expand our teaching pool here, and locating those families that are willing to listen to the gospel, and we hope to see a lot of fruits throughout this week!
1st Day with Elder Santiago from Oaxaca Mexico 12.20.18



Spiritual Thought:
Proverbs 23: 7
So as he thinketh in his heart, so is he
I have been placing a lot of emphasis in where my thoughts have been directed this past week because I really believe that the core of who we are originates in our thoughts!  If we are looking for happiness and success, we will find it by focusing our thoughts and thus our lives upon the gospel!  If we wish to be miserable and stressed the fastest way to do so is to focus in on our own lives, and what has been happening to us.  I have found a common pattern in the mission is that many more experienced missionaries reach a certain point where all the rejection and lack of numerical success boggs them down to a point of disobedience and rebellion, and this normally comes about as a result of getting caught in Satans favorite trap of focusing on all the things that are happening to us, and not seeking to act towards the future days and events that we want!  It is like many wise people have told me, If you are looking for success, you will find it, and if you are focusing on the failures, you will find a whole lot of it!  I really love this principle and think it is very important that we recognize that our Savior was someone who was constantly living in the moment striving to act in a way that would create the greatest difference and serve according to the will of Heavenly Father!  His example is really evident in this Christmas season, and pray that each of us seek to strive to emphasize the positive in life, find joy in the simple things, and I promise you as a representative of Jesus Christ that you will find it, if we can keep our thoughts focused on Him and how we can build up our fellow brothers and sisters whom we have been given the special privilege to know, serve, and build in our race to our Heavenly Father, who stands beckoning with His Son for us to ultimately find an embrace in their infinitely strong and merciful arms.  
Breakdown of the Week:
Tuesday:
So we went to the offices early in the morning, and I said my final goodbyes to Elder Brown, and Elder Agla, and then sat anxiously in the mission office room for a solid hour, chatting with the other soon to be trainers, while Presidente Maucotel was finalizing the process of receiving revelation for this change!  It was such a crazy moment when President capacitated us as to how we should really train a new missionary, the basic stuff, and then we had the trainers on the left side of the room, and the trainees on the right, and one by one, they selected the trainees and announced their companion for the next three months, and I feel so excited I wanted to yell, but in order to keep the Spirit in the room I thankfully refrained, but I am so incredibly excited to help Elder Santiago learn and grow with me, and I have complete confidence that he will be a phenomenal missionary!
Wednesday:
We did a lot of member visits in San Miguel, trying to find some partial member families, as well as reactivating those who haven't been attending lately, and thankfully we saw a lot of the fruits of our labors this week as our attendance included a bunch of individuals that hadn´t been in the space of several months, with one family almost 2 years of inactivity!
Thursday and Friday:
We really honed in on working with the youth around here in our area which meant playing soccer with them, getting to know their names, and figuring out a bit of their background, and what their interests are!  We have been planting several seeds for being able to teach them the lessons with their whole family, so we´ll see where this goes next week!
Saturday: We had our Christmas Devotional, which was comprised of us singing our hearts out to all of the Christmas Hymns in the Hymnbook, listening to Presidente Maucotel´s song play the violin in an absolutely beautiful way to different Christmas hymns, as well as watching some Christmas videos that are absolutely beautiful with basically all of our Zone crying in the end of one video where the Mormon Tabernacle Choir sings infant Holy, Infant Lowly while showing a quiet narrative of a man being liberated from jail after much time, and the parallelism of how our Savior truly has redeemed us from the prisons of our sinful lives and offers us a chance to greater freedom and joy than we can possibly imagine!  I highly recommend that all of you look up this video if you have the chance because it truly brings the Spirit in such a powerful way!  Then we went out and worked trying to find a reference we received from the system but found out that He lives in Tamaulipas so that ended up being an almost waste of a trip until we found this youth named Enrique that is a devout Catholic but is very interested in hearing what our Church believes, so we will see what happens in our appointment on Wednesday!
Sunday:
We finally had Erik in church on Sunday after two failed attempts to get him there, and the really amazing thing was that he was really curious during sacrament meeting, and he kept asking about worthiness and what we need to do to be able to partake of the Sacrament which is super sweet, because I can see these desires working in him to be baptized, he just has a handful of doubts, but hopeful we can get him and his pareja (almost wife) married legally so  that they can be baptized!  The sad thing is that it is a really difficult process to get married civilly because it costs so much, but we will keep praying and see that God will prepare the way for them to enter into the fold!


Today:
I was able to chat with the family after four months of service, and it was truly beautiful to see their smiling faces, and be able to share some of the experiences that I had forgotten about, or that are too difficult to share via email, but all in all its been a wonderful day, also we did the finishing touches on the upkeep of the house, so it feels absolutely pristine!
That´s all from this week!
Merry Christmas and Festive Season!
Hope you guys can echa la ganas (not sure how to translate this, but basically, just keep on keeping on, and get the success you need!)
Love, 
Elder Raven

PS. It was so fun to get a Christmas surprise and get more photos from David Cardenas on Skype!!!


Elder Raven surprised David and Alma Cardenas Twin girls with a gingerbread house.  Brother Cardenas sent these photos to us after our SKYPE conversation with Elder Raven.